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From: The Wall Street Journal

The Best Way to Make Up After Any Argument

The Wall Street Journal: 

You had an argument with someone you love. Now what?

There is a definite wrong way to make up and go forward after a fight, therapists and psychologists say: Apologize quickly and move on.

Instead, it is crucial when repairing a personal rift to address the underlying issue. Fail to reach a resolution on the argument itself—not just the hurt feelings it caused—and you will end up fighting again in the future about the same thing. Even worse: You’ll likely end up arguing about the argument.

In contrast, women “find it more difficult to isolate themselves from the relational context while having sex,” says Gurit E. Birnbaum, a psychologist, sex researcher and associate professor at the School of Psychology at the Interdisciplinary Center in Herzliya, Israel.

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