From: The New York Times
Before You Offer Advice, Ask This Question
August 8, 2025
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How to give better advice
Research suggests that when we give advice, it’s often biased toward our own experiences. We share insights that we would find useful, but they might not be as relevant to the other person, said Richard Larrick, a professor of management and organizations at Duke University’s Fuqua School of Business.
There’s also evidence that unsolicited advice can harm relationships. And in the workplace, such advice can be seen as self-serving and is more likely to be ignored. Conversely, other research suggests that when people ask for advice, it is viewed by recipients as more valuable.
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