APS

2026 APS Annual Convention

“We Just Clicked:” Shared Reality Sparks Conversational Connection

Thursday, May 28, 2026 · Barcelona, Spain

Oral · Connection & Belonging: Relationships in Social Life

What kinds of conversations spark instant connection? Four talks using diverse, cutting-edge methodologies from conversation science (e.g., LLM-powered text analyses, speed-dating paradigms, human-AI interactions, and controlled experiments) present converging evidence that jointly constructing a shared reality—a private world together in conversation—is a powerful source of interpersonal closeness.

Chairs & Discussants

  • Maya Rossignac-MilonChair
    IESE Business School
  • Catalina EnestromCoChair
    IESE Business School

Presentations

  1. The Spark: Shared Reality Predicts Romantic AttractionMaya Rossignac-Milon, Chang Lu, Katherine Zee, Niall Bolger, Joy McClure, Paul Eastwick, et al.
  2. From Talk to Telepathy: The Spontaneous Use of Insider Language In Casual ConversationEmma Templeton, Luke Chang, Marie Cone LeBeaumont, Erik Nook, Dawson Haddox, Eliot Aiman, et al.
  3. Interactional Role Dynamics Predict Shared Reality In Dyadic ConversationEmma Miller, Jack LaViolette, Maya Rossignac-Milon, Peter Bearman, Niall Bolger, E. Tory Higgins
  4. Call-Backs: Verbal Signals of Listening, Care, and Competence during ConversationMichael Yeomans, Hanne Collins, Yaoxi Shi, Maurice Schweitzer, Alison Wood Brooks